A Life of Reading, Leadership, and Reflection
Newton Siele, the CEO of Phillips Therapeutics, has a unique perspective on life. “Don’t sweat the small stuff,” he says. “And it’s all small stuff.” This philosophy has guided him through decades of leadership, fatherhood, and personal growth. As he turns 50, he reflects on his journey with a mix of wisdom and humor.
Siele has seen a lot in his lifetime. His experiences are etched into the grey stubble on his face, and his words carry the weight of someone who has lived through many chapters. He has read over 100 books and written one—Life’s Prescription, published in 2010. His love for reading is not just a hobby; it’s a tool for growth, mentorship, and self-reflection.
“I think I am who I am because of reading,” he says. “If I weren’t reading, I don’t think I would be able to grow.”
The Power of Books
Siele founded a book club 10 years ago, which now has around 700 members. They focus on leadership and management, but they also explore books that challenge their thinking. One of the most impactful reads was Strengths-Based Leadership by Tom Rath and Barry Conchie. Another was Switch Off by Prof Mark Cropley, which explored the importance of disconnecting from work.
He often jokes about the challenges of modern life, where people are “locked in” due to constant connectivity. “The office is with you in your mobile phone and laptop,” he says. “It feels like we are always working.”
His children have also embraced this culture of reading. His son is currently reading The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene, while his other son is diving into The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey. Siele encourages them to read widely, believing that books shape character and career paths.
Lessons from the Past
When asked about the most influential book in his life, Siele points to The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey. It led him to become an emotional intelligence practitioner, a role he takes seriously. “Emotional intelligence is the balance that allows you to relate with yourself and others,” he explains.
One habit he struggles with is “beginning with the end in mind.” He believes that clarity about the future helps structure daily decisions. Another is “sharpen the soul,” which reminds him that no one knows everything.
Siele also values the lessons from failure. He recommends Failing Forward by John C. Maxwell, a book that teaches how to learn from mistakes rather than fear them.
Reflections on Aging and Purpose
As he approaches 50, Siele reflects on what it means to grow older. “I think there is an element of truth in that [the idea that the older you get, the less you care],” he says. “But I’ve looked at life as an opportunity to write a chapter or perform.”
He hopes to be remembered as someone who inspired others and made a difference. “In this chapter of my life, I hope that I can be remembered as somebody who inspired, lived their passion, and made a difference.”
Siele also thinks about what he would want to hear at his own funeral. “I want to be proud of what I read,” he says. “I don’t want it to read… ‘That here lies Newton Siele, whose life journey was too much to bear.’”
Fatherhood and Legacy
Siele’s relationship with his father shaped much of his worldview. His dad was a teacher, and the family’s reading culture began at home. “My dad was never the confrontational type,” he says. “You don’t have to always be angry or raise your voice; you can still pass on your message.”
He wishes he had learned earlier that people are not defined by where they come from. “Nothing is further from the truth,” he says. “You’re not defined by where you come from.”
Finding Balance
When asked what he has finally come to terms with, Siele laughs. “That I am growing old,” he says. “Even my eyes are straining to read tiny letters, but I’m still pushing back.”
He also admits that he is no longer chasing fame. “I would substitute that with purpose,” he says. “Our world is filled with people seeking high-dopamine events and activities, including social media. I am not interested in that.”
Final Thoughts
Siele’s advice for surviving adulthood is simple: “For every barrier and obstacle that you face, there is always an opportunity. Sometimes we spend energy on the barriers rather than finding the opportunities. Find it.”
On weekends, he enjoys spending time with his sons, watching series together. His hobbies include binge-watching shows like Blacklist and Designated Survivor. His youngest son is often glued to his PlayStation, playing games like GT or Roblox.
